Originally Posted By: mutatio
If I remove all attachment to her it should be less painful to live with her.
That is why it is called DE-tachment
Originally Posted By: mutatio
What will that do to our relationship? Isn't that giving her exactly what she wants?
How does this save the marriage?

You have NO relationship right now - Right?

It saves YOU.
YOU are 50% of the marriage.

Me-70, D37,S36