It's one thing to take the photo's down and another to destroy them. That is harsh. I am so sorry you had to experience that Fo. My wife is scrubbing me out of her life. Each time it hurts but I shake it off quicker. I wish she would not be putting up this wall between us.
She just came upstairs. The upshot of her comments was that she does not want to do anything with me. I am annoyed with her, frustrated by her. The emotion I feel indicates that I am still attached to her. Trying to have her in my life. She on the other hand is trying to erase me from her existence. It really hurts to have become persona non grata.
If I remove all attachment to her it should be less painful to live with her. What will that do to our relationship? Isn't that giving her exactly what she wants? How does this save the marriage?
