REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#4

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I read your posts about things and started crying myself
I know things are different for everyone but parts of your story resonate

I don't know what to write except to say there a people who have been there. you are not alone.

Thanks for writing Brad! I'm really sorry that anything about my story is similar to yours. I also feel completely embarrased and ashamed of how I have allowed my H to treat me. And, I feel like a complete idiot for wanting him back, yet I do want him back. My friends and family don't know all of the things that he has done. I just don't think I could face them if they knew. It would be so humiliating! I know how H has made me feel and I hate to think of anyone else having to go through that. It just makes it so much worse when it's the person that you love that is treating you that way. They're supposed to be your partner and be there to support you, not tear you down. My H does act differently when there are others around (unless it's just the kids) which says that he knows that what he's doing is not the way he should be acting.

I hate that you had to hear that your W is on a dating site. That had to be really hard to deal with and once you hear it you can't go back and UNhear it. I guess people think they're doing you a favor by telling you those things, but it just hurts so much. My H isn't on a dating site as far as I know. But, then again, he doesn't need to be since he is already seeing an ow.

I do appreciate you reaching out and writing to me. It's always good to hear from you. I hope you had a great night and have some plans to stay busy today. Remember that you're not alone either. I'm here if you need to talk! I promise I will understand and not judge.