Just called grandma to find out how kids are and wife call back letting the kids talk to me. I was at her mom's today because after or council we came home and after a few yelling match from both of us she left and my work computer was in the van, I new she was going to go to her mom because our youngest was ther. She hadn't arrive yet and her mom invited me in, she got mad because her mom was harsh on her and me too. She left to pick up kids from school (I stayed to talk to her mom) when she came back she didn't speak or look at me. Now she is all friendly, I continue to be confused (hurt, anger, lonely, depressed)