Well Today we went to marriage counselor but wife doesn't want to work things out and will not give EA (OM not even in the states) I believe today is the mark of the End. I'm going to have to figure out how to take care of our three kids (4,5,10) and still work, diver the older ones to school pick them up and take care of the 4yr old, run a business or quit the business and look for a job at a company with regular business hrs. My wife is so far gone in her fantasy world that will not listen to reason, her words "if I give in and work on our marriage l'm giving you control". I think is over, I'm done no more doormat. I'm scare and devastated for my kids, specially the oldest that has gone through a lot "he was bully on the first grade" and now I'm going to have to pull him away from his school that he is doing so well and back to the school he was bullied at. Or sell the house move to my mom's house the school is next door to her. It doesn't help right now that I'm slow on business and living from savings for the past 3 months.