You voiced the truth to W…and hopefully she can hear you to avoid any more pain for the girls I think they live in a thick fog of denial, but you never know when something may sink in..I do not think they like the truth..they would prefer sugar coating their behavior and choices…I personally think being authentic is better.
I was not very authentic with my xh..I played along for the first 2 years.. we became friendly but it was all fake and on his terms and about him still in the end,,,he left to find himself,,not sure if he did and as I look back his actual leaving was for the best- and I found myself
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
