It's been two weeks for me. Since I shed some feelings.
First in response to the above posts and my sitch.... She hasn't confused to being infatuated with this (dbag as she called him) while we were together. Their first ties together were the same month as D papers. In hindsight I can't imagine a world where they weren't being stupid and he isn't the mucus that pond scum eats.
Anyway, I've been well. Things are happening across the board in the pieces of my life I can control.
She did take the kids for a weekend get a way with the new guy. But honestly I think it just pushed them closer to me. I didn't say anything to her about it, although I wanted to badly.
I still maintain minimal conversation with her during the week, she confronts me about nothing.
We had soccer for the kids last weekend and have it tomorrow and 2 more weekends after that. I kept it together and was absolutely pleasant.
After my last little run on the board I started to accept things as they were and realized she has done the worst possible things imaginable. I have no more reason to any way but business like. It took me a long time but I think I'm finally on the program. In that light I started researching how to work with a passive agressive person. I found some techniques that I need to start to employ.
That's it for now. Good luck all! Live learn adapt
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015