V, I love you and view you as a very gentle soul. I'm sorry you are having a hard time with working and getting up. What exactly are the issues (the real issues) and what could you do about themv? This exercise may be beneath you but it might help in figuring out how to fix the true issues.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015