I'm curious about something - has she put anything in writing about reconciling, regretting the A, her concerns about the OW, feeling confused, etc.? Or is it all verbal?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17