James, what you wife is telling you are things you have done in the past to lead her to feeling like she does now. However, I believe there is much more that she's not telling you. Whenever a woman doesn't want to tell the true reason for her loss of attraction and respect.....she will tell her husband what use to be the reasons.
Please stop chasing her. Stop texting her throughout the day. No begging, pleading, crying, etc. There is so much to tell you, but can't do it all in one post. First thing, read Divorce Remedy and the links Cadet sent you. It is information you need to put in your tool box.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
