I was in the exact same position as you back in September last year. Listen to her, apologize, and keep your mouth shut about how you are feeling and don't get upset in front of her. Read those links carefully that Cadet posted. You got here early enough that the links might give you a good chance of working things out. When I was going through what you are now going through, I didn't have this website to help me out. I begged, pleaded, cried, all of it drove her away further. Don't make the same mistake many of us here have made.


M41 W39
D3
Open Marriage Request by W 6/15
BD 9/15
1st EA 10/15
2nd EA discovered: 1/16
I moved out: 1/16
2nd EA blew apart 2/16
PA 4/16
I've had enough, filing for D