No, he doesn't do either. He stopped smoking for me 12 years ago and took up dipping. After BD, he took up smoking again. So now, he smokes and dips. He told me he did that because he was having a hard time dealing with things. He said it wasn't working though and the only other thing he could think of was to take up drinking. As far as I know he hasn't. I made an appointment for him to go see the Dr and he was put on antidepressants. Not sure if they're working or not because I'm never around him.
I am working to fix myself in counseling. I can't move on alone right now, I just can't do it. Eventually, I'm hoping to. If he's never coming back, I will have to be able to let go at some point. It isn't what I want though.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
