She believes that even if she cuts contact that she would not feel she is connected to me. She is acting very strange. I even told at the session that to move forward she needs to stop contact. She said there were more underlying problems. I am not denying that but cutting contact is the start.
I am unhappy but not depressed on how I used to. Only thing I can do is to be mindful and live the moment. I also act as if my problems are gone so that I get the feeling.
What kind of goals? Get-A-Life goals?
Of course there are other things in the marriage to work on but NONE of that can happen if there are more than two people in the equation. If there is anyone else in the picture with her then there is ZERO point even discussing working on anything. If that's the case then step back, continue to detach, and do some GAL.
