W is saying she wants to reconcile and that she's getting "closer" to telling ow to take a hike. She misses me and our life together. She knows she has to tell ow to go before it's possible. She wants to get together to discuss over lunch or dinner. I said I won't do things with her just to be her friend and she said she understands that. It's to discuss getting back together. I think if we appear publicly together that might mean she doesn't care what ow thinks... unless she's trying to make ow jealous. But I don't think so. She's not above drama however...
Here's where I get a little tough. I'm pro-talking but I won't talk to someone about being in a relationship with them while they're in a relationship with someone else. OW gone for good? Great, let's talk. OW still in the picture? No, I'm sorry but it wouldn't be right to talk about getting back together while you're with someone else.
That's just my opinion. Take it or leave it, I won't be offended.
