Ok Maximus... I'm confused... You say basically don't be there for her unless she wants to talk about our relationship. Then you say be a light house. We have 3 kids and they play sports so were are busy a lot. I feel like my best option is just to be a super positive person around the house and not talk about the A or OM. Just be as up beat as possible and be a great dad.
W's reason for A is basically we had no passion for years. She got drunk and crossed a line she normally wouldn't and liked it and couldn't stop. She admits it was addicting. Not sure if that's a good enough answer but that's what she says.
Not trying to sound like a smarta$$ but I see both Maximus and OTW didn't have things work out for you guys. Are you telling me what you did or what you learned you should have done?
