No these are real good. I'm not offended. I guess I don't know what detached means. She is sleeping in the basement and our conversations are pretty limited to our kids and what needs to be done. I'm still friendly but not doing anything for her. I am not moping around reading relationship books. That's for sure. What else could I do? I'll have to reread that part of the book when she's not around.
I agree I can GAL. I agree I can't focus on her. I have definitely been more confident in myself lately and she sees that and has commented on it. I have been great with the kids doing tons of stuff with them. I probably could use a night out with some guys.
I don't see her looking for another man at this point. I won't say never if things don't change, but right now I think that would be the last thing she wants.