Not that things were awful before. We have a very good marriage. But we lost intimacy... or emotional connection. We both did. I pouted about it and pushed for more and that's what pushed her away. We did that over and over. But now I realize it wasn't even about sex like I thought it was. I just wanted to feel loved. She can show me that in so many other ways. I just didn't realize that before. We are good together. We laugh and have more fun right now than a most "happily married couples. We are both very good parents. She has been detached from the kids lately but when she is present she is amazing as a mother. If she could do one thing for me right now it would be to start spending quality time with the kids. I think if she did that she could keep her mind off the OM and realize how great our life is. But... I can't tell her what to do.
