I completely realize things will not be ok. Things weren't ok before that's why were are where we are now. I get that. I would just be happy to start trying to work on our MR. She can't do that as long as the OM is in the picture. Is he completely out yet... I don't know. She's seems adamant, but that could change. I realize that. I know she will need time before she can start thinking about us. But I think this is a HUGE opportunity... so I don't want to mess it up. So lay it on me. I'll put on my big boy pants and do whatever it takes. DO I completely detach (which I have been doing). Do I show her my best? I know S P A C E will be huge for her.
Here's a problem I have... her brother is the person she respects most in this world. They are super tight. They need to talk. But my W [censored] at reaching out for help. Part of why she is where she is today is because she has tried to do this on her own. I want to contact him and tell him he needs to talk to her, but is that crossing a line. I am real close with him. We are good friends. But I know his sister comes before me as she should. Do I reach out to him?
I am a fixer. I can't get out of my own way. I have been working real hard on that. But right now I'm in full on fixer mode. I'm trying to shut it down.
