MB, I think it's time for some drastic action. I'm hoping you'll get some advice from the vets. Let's see if Wonka can find her way over here.

May I suggest that you read the book Codependent No More? I've just started it, and it speaks to me. Hopefully even though I have cotton in my ears, my hands are over them, and I chant "nahnahanah" the whole way.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat