Oh my sweet roar, I am very sorry to hear this. My H said awful things to me as well. They hurt and burn and make you feel empty.
I try not to believe him when he says mean things ( sometimes I do wonder if it is really true but maybe I'm in denial. I dont know.)
You are a strong, beautiful inside and out, caring person. I may not know you but I can tell from how you write and how we interact.
I think your plan sounds good, to try to connect as best friends until he leaves. Maybe that is what you guys need. To be friends like you were in the beginning. That is my new approach. Show him life with me isnt going to be miserable, try to remind him of the girl he used to love.
I am still here for you,as always <3
I have no idea When to give up hope. Someone told me it is When You are completely fine 100% with the divorce or being married. When You truly could care less either way. But i think You are suppose to just know?
