Basically yesterday while watching TV, she asked me not to talk about the affair too much. I said fine as you are cutting contact. She said it wont solve our problem. Yes but a start I said. Said the same in session. How should I behave
Let her prove that she is cutting the contact. And past that - she wants to be married to you.
This will be by actions not words.
She has has issues, why are those YOUR fault?
Her issues are her alone.
When you make 180's they are for YOU, not to win her back.