I'm so sorry Roar.

My WAW pretty much told me the same stuff as your H.

It's very hard to reconcile in your mind. But alas, one of Sandi's rules is: Beleive noting you hear and 50 % of what you see.

Regardless, those words pierce like a dagger and they do hurt to hear. Keep working on detaching and being the best mom you can be.

It's a roller coaster but you'll adjust in time.