GoodDad, you're also still looking to push and feel like you need to do something. Stop that. You might disagree with me, but we've been watching you ride the rollercoaster with your wife, especially after confirming OM, and reacting based off of emotions. That will not solve your problems.
Take the solid advice everyone is giving to wait, watch, and continue focusing on yourself and your changes.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present