Frustrated with Husband's Ambivalence

[Roxi]

Thank you. The hardest part is having good days of communication, then he goes dark for a couple of days. It's ok when I do it, but not him! ha ha. I feel like I have gotten my old self back- I've lost 40 lbs, am having fun going out but the dark cloud of divorce is always hanging over my head. How do you live with the uncertainty of not knowing when the D bomb will drop? I am working on my 5th round of surrendering.