Yes. Stop looking at their pinterest. Start looking at yourself and what you need to do to have a good life. When i went through my stich I remember reading an email my ex mil sent to my ex. Ex computer was unattended and her email was open so I snopped. It was all about encouring her to go through with her plans to divorce me. So i stopped looking into her stuff. They will think and say things to justify their actions. Nothing you say will change their minds.
Gal my friend
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”