So W found out last night that OM isn't so perfect and has been lying to her too after reading several texts OMW sent me. She was pissed and hurt. Obviously she would expect him to lie to his wife but he told my W that he was moving out and done with his marriage. His W said he told her that he loved her and wanted to fix their marriage. A couple other lies to my W too. Plus he threw her under the bus making her look like a stalker. I said if he loves you he could have come up with lies that didn't make you look bad. My W wants to send his wife emails that OM send her. Showing he was the one pushing for things. I said that might get him kicked out and pursue you more, but do what you want to do. She is mad.
So what do I do... Nothing as I have been doing... basically being roommates living in different bedrooms. Do I start showing her some love? I guess it depends how she responds to any conversations she has with him today. I told her he would surely deny it and try to cover it up. If she buys his lies I will most likely be done. I don't see her buying it though as angry as she was.
