How are the lonely ones on this forum handling this yucky Valentines weekend? I'm struggling! I'm having some girlfriends over tonight and I signed up to work a couple hrs on Sunday. My son will be with his dad and my college son is at school and working.

Also baseball games for my 15 yr old start soon and my x may bring his OW! How do I handle this? Dreading!!! Do I ask him not to and he would do what he wants anyway. How do you in your sit he handle this? Please advice!


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since