Originally Posted By: Rain75

But if 100% of his income is paid in cash I am guessing I am not getting much if I get anything at all. Now I'm worried.

Rain, when I got divorced 14 yrs ago, my XH was self employed and received cash pmt for what he sold. He lied to the courts ant told them that he hadn't been working and I couldn't PROVE anything different. He was still ordered to pay child support and half of their medical insurance. It was laughable! For his 4 children his child support AND insurance payments TOTALED $268/month. That's it! I think I got 3 or 4 payments before he stopped paying g all together. I took him to court twice, but it always cost me more than I would have gotten from him so I just let it go and he never paid anything.


M:45 H:48
M:11
No kids
BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it