Thank you job and Sotto, I try not to include h in my decisions, what I do, where I go etc. I haven't told him anything about my latest health issues, its none of his business right now.

So today's random h act - he sent me a link to a property with a text saying " was bored and found this"

The link took me to a property page, the house being pretty much exactly like the one we talked about moving into for our last home (pre bd); a wood house with a wrap around veranda so we can watch our g/kids play in the garden (this is a future dream lol).

To make things even more bizarre it is in the location he mentioned "us" moving to after all this, so that we can start over with no history there.

I text replied " um, ok!? The house looks lovely. You really do have some random thoughts !!"

H - " I am a puzzle wrapped up in an enigma"

Me - "indeed"

H - "Not sure how I got to looking at houses!"

At this point I knew we could well get into dodgy territory, so I changed the subject completely.

The random-nous of his thoughts really does intrigue me lol.