Part of the problem as well in my eyes is that a person claiming emotional abuse and separating to be with OP, and they don't realize it, is it becomes a cycle for them. Now that OP doesn't turn out. They move on and so on without stopping to look at themselves because they believe the partner is wrong and they deserve better.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
