I still don't see the purpose of forcing an answer. Stop pushing it in my opinion. He can say whatever he wants. It is up to you to judge the actions.

You were not wrong for doing what you had to do. Let him be mad. But until he works through what he needs to why force something? Even if he shows up saying I think I want to reconcile don't belie until you see action

Just my opinion.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15