JB, nothing odd about my day, I just thought it was odd that I saw so many posters talking about this in one day. Everywhere I checked in it was the same story.
Rich, Faith, Tim, Cil, thank you for chiming in. I know it's easy to believe in marriage when it's what WE want, I will fully admit it's hard as heck when we're the ones stuck. For those that read my journal entries on my last thread from when I was at my low during my M you'll know that I understand...but I am proud that I stuck it out and I still believe this is the only option.
Julie, I really appreciate you finding the good in what I'm saying. I truly understand how difficult it is. I don't judge feelings, our actions define us. You are managing through an awful lot and are still trying to work towards R. Keep at it.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15