When the goal is positivity

[JulieH]

Painter and Fo

You guys are right. We should not try to tackle any type of volatile issues at this point.

In the past 2nd job was brought up with marriage counselor as was meeting with a financial advisor. It was settled as an issue we both agreed we disagreed on.
It obviously was more then that.

I am going to commit to memory the phrases you guys are suggesting to validate. Very helpful.