How are you going to give an ultimatum regarding either working on marriage or get a divorce? If the SO has not shown real interest in reconciling then and if you truly don't eat to get divorced then why do this???
Because you feel you are in limbo? if i am pulling info correctly this happened in July, correct?
Why are we assuming that the SO timeframe is on our timeframe? Because we are tired of dealing with it? Ok, but why not just go about living our lives the way we want just like they are?
I am hoping it is not to get a response and then maybe back fire in your face.
I feel just as much can be accomplished without this path.
Live your life!
please let me know if i am way off here
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
