Irish- Yes, my Ds are very intuitive. They love their dad and also realize he is struggling. I try not to ask them much about him because I don't want to put them in the middle. Our family was a very close knit family who did everything together. What he is doing is devastating to us all, and I know they are all struggling with it. I'm so afraid it will affect their future relationships in some way. How can it not??
2Times- I'm sorry that you too had 2 BDs. It is definitely heartbreaking. I absolutely KNOW I need to zip my lips (and also shut my mind off) about OW. Thanks for reminding me. It does absolutely no good except get me off track of detaching. I'm trying to stay dark right now, so I don't talk to him unless it is about D17 or financial things.
Me: 51 H:50 M: 28 years T: 31 years 4 Ds: 24, 22, 19, 17 BD Jan 2013 D filed Feb 2015 Papers pulled Aug 2015 D re-filed Jan 2016
