If there is OP you make the call, if there's physical abuse, please protect yourself. If not, you don't get to quit. Well, you do, you can do whatever you'd like. Let's just be clear that you'd be choosing to get divorced because you feel you deserve more than your partner is giving you at this moment in time.
I would suggest to add emotional abuse to your exceptions list - it's no less damaging than physical abuse, and often even harder to break away from.
It's important to know that abuse victims usually don't acknowledge the abuse. They excuse it and call it something else. It may have been introduced so gradually that they didn't catch on. They may have been used to it from childhood. Or they may not have encountered it before and don't recognize it for what it is. They can be the ones who work the hardest to save the M.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
