the road goes ever on and on...

[rich4j]

If not, you don't get to quit. Well, you do, you can do whatever you'd like. Let's just be clear that you'd be choosing to get divorced because you feel you deserve more than your partner is giving you at this moment in time.

Ah....I would like my STBX to hear that message loud and clear. She says to stop telling her she decided to leave...I left years ago. But she is quitting on me now because she feels she deserves better/more.

So I ask what is that? She goes to the negative of calling out this episode where I did this or didn't do that and wasn't there for her. There are 2 in a relationship and you have to take onwership of what you did and can improve if you are given the chance. It takes 2 to tango...or you dance alone which is where alot of us are at.