Julie, when you say that H has to make a decision, do you mean that you are asking him for this decision? I am reaching a point where I can't remain in limbo. Not today, not next week, but within a few months I believe I need to get out of limbo. Just wondering what this looks like for you. If you ask, is it an ultimatum? If you ask and he says R, but then continues to act the same way as he is now, then what?
