Hi Rouky, just been catching up on your thread. I could have written your post about what you did to contribute to STBXH leaving! Every single word! We are so similar! I'm glad you are feeling more positive regardless of the outcome and can only hope that I can get to where you are one day. Seems like a good sign that your H is trying to plan activities to do with the kids while you're away. I hope you have a lovely time with your family this weekend! I think your new Valentine traditions sound lovely. I have been trying to pretend I don't know what date it is. Why are there so many triggers for a broken heart?!


M-43 H-42
S-11 D-7
T-19 yrs
M-15 yrs
Bombshell 9/17/15
Sep - 11/9/15