Thank you Fo.2. If I can help anyone that makes me happy. These matters of the heart can be so painful. Unbelievably painful and really hard to navigate. Most of us go in unqualified because it's new territory. We're dealing with people that we know better than we know anyone else on the planet and yet we don't even recognize them anymore. We can't even rationalize what is going on. It's by far the hardest and scariest thing I've ever been through and I was a Marine grunt who has been to war. People desperately need sites like this and people willing to help. There are a lot of different viewpoints, which is actually a good thing because not everything works for everyone. If something I experienced helps someone then that is great. If something I may have done would not suit them then I'm not offended by that. I'm just glad they may have found other advice that will.