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The counselling session will be in 2 hours.
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Anybody have any advice on first day of counselling?
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I feel deep lonliness
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Hang in there WillDo. This whole thing [censored] for all of us.
Regarding counseling, let the counselor guide you.
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Thornton it finished. The tone was ok. Even the affair was out there. She did talk about my depression most of the time.
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Good. When she talks, just listen and STFU.
She might say things to the counselor that you disagree with. Let her talk, because that is her perception.
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So the support I thought I got when I was struggling with depression was invalid.
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ok will listen.
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Sitting in the living room with her. She is watching a film (not sharing). We are waiting to watch BBC 4. The session calmed things. We heard each other.
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Dont bring up any relationship talk. Just let things settle down.
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