Thank you for your sweet words, Ancaire, they really felt uplifting.
We have already decided that if we do S, I will stay here and H will move out. That makes it easier - I don't have to think about finding a place or moving my stuff.
I'm curious if I would actually be happier. I'm sure the initial peace would feel good, for both of us. It's been hard, not just on me.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17