I'm glad you had fun over the weekend. Sounds like your h doesn't want to cut the ties, but also he doesn't want to have to do the work himself. He's still relying on you to take care of things for him, "mom".
Glad to read that he did call and send cards to your son and GF for their birthdays. He's starting to remember to do those things, which is good and are baby steps in the right direction.
Bright, how do you really feel about being him still relying on you to take care of the insurance and other things?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
