Thanks Cadet. Per talking it out with my counselor, I am going to hold off on giving back the rings and not give 100% of the tax return. I do not think I will split it 50/50 but not going to give 100% too. Seems that that would just be continued enabling and as he said she is standing on the other side of the she will not truly know the what color the grass is until I stop helping. He told me whatever happens she has to learn consequences for her decisions, which is something I read on here a lot too!


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16