I just made some calculations and found that H and I can manage a S if one financial puzzle piece falls into place. I feel relieved - it's just reassuring to have that knowledge.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17