Not to hijack, but it does help to answer the question. How candid do you want? It took a while (about a month to two months) for us to get comfortable with the idea. However, the intimacy is much more improved (frequency, intensity, creativity..., etc). Right now it's at a lull just because she's pregnant and scared something will go wrong, BUT we have openly discussed and check in about it.
Perhaps it depends on the cause of the SSM. In our case, it stemmed from lack of connection, resentment, and poor communication. Not so much LL.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
It took a while (about a month to two months) for us to get comfortable with the idea. However, the intimacy is much more improved (frequency, intensity, creativity..., etc). Right now it's at a lull just because she's pregnant and scared something will go wrong, BUT we have openly discussed and check in about it. 