Congrats on the freelance work! That is awesome and having a bit of self sufficiency will go a long way into making you feel better about things.
I am sorry you are feeling down again. Why does XF need an apartment? Doesn't he already have a place?
The same reason he says he can't take the kids...his place is falling apart. Except I was there the night of the infamous case of the "missing" condoms. And it's not falling apart, he just made a huge gross mess and doesn't want to clean it. That was my job.
And thank you! On the congrats. I am very excited.
Also I took a few steps back. Last night our son fell backwards off a chair and slammed the back of his head on the floor. After I calmed him down I text XF. He read the text almost immediately. He replied this morning almost 12 hours later.
He lied and said he had fallen asleep and just read it and asked me about our son.
That didn't go well. Listen, you want to ignore me for those girls or even not visit the kids, whatever, we will deal. But something like that could have landed him in the ER and you were too busy?! And now you're lying? Just not okay.
So he insisted he wasn't lying and then back to silent. So right now he can kiss my a$$. He is so wrong for that.
