rich, they tell others to help build a case for the D. Then when they waiver, it's harder to come back because so many people know. My W did that, then regretted it when all the b.s. she had spread about me came back to me through the rumor mill.
Good luck. Don't tell people who don't need to know yet. I did that early on and regretted it. It gave her license to tell whomever she wanted and that made it more real and harder to undo.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
