I'd be lying if I said I didn't have those thoughts occasionally. Still, life is pretty good right now. We go for walks, we hold hands, and this year is our 30th anniversary. We've made it through all this so I think we'll be ok. I tell her all the time that if I die first that the last thing I want my eyes to gaze upon before I leave this life is her face.
Tx, if you dont mind a question...since you two have been working things out, how would you describe the intimacy.
Holding hands and taking walks is part of it, but what about emotional closeness, sharing, sex? From what i am finding is that more times than not, after affair recovery, this new relationship never really goes back to a physical one. I think i recall one of starsky's posts indicating that the SSM issue never was resolved even after they have reconciled all those years ago.
I have been trying to get candit responses on this and it seems like men do not want to share for whatever reason. I will gladly stand down if you are uncomfortable with this topic or say that it is none of my business.
Thank you for sharing, and also for your perspective on so many of these threads, i really do enjoy your point of view and your matter of factness
