Hey,

So I emailed W.

Basically what OTW said to email.

she has replied back that she has retained a L and that L will be sending me a letter outlining what has to happen. And that all that we have to do is sit down and get to an agreement as to what we want and her L will send it to my L and its done.

She is asking if I want to sit down tonight to work on it, and that if we have a planned time then it might work better then one of us starting the talk out of the blue.

I don't want to talk about it tonight. Or if I do I an not agreeing to anything. My L said I can talk about the options and have a kitchen table discussion about things but not to agree to anything at this point.

I don't know how she could pay for a L.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016