she has replied back that she has retained a L and that L will be sending me a letter outlining what has to happen. And that all that we have to do is sit down and get to an agreement as to what we want and her L will send it to my L and its done.
She is asking if I want to sit down tonight to work on it, and that if we have a planned time then it might work better then one of us starting the talk out of the blue.
I don't want to talk about it tonight. Or if I do I an not agreeing to anything. My L said I can talk about the options and have a kitchen table discussion about things but not to agree to anything at this point.
I don't know how she could pay for a L.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016